The Insomnia Begins;
First things first, I bet no one's going to read this. I'll just put it up. It's about that "special" matter. The one we all strugle to handle;
1. ) Call all of your friends - even the ones you may have ignored during your recent relationship and make plans immediately. Now is not a good time to be alone.
2.) Vent when the need arises. Good friends will let you take out the photo album (again) and cry (again) and rant (again) and they'll still love you.
3. ) Allow yourself time to grieve. If you don't let yourself wallow in self-pity for a while and mourn the good times lost, your heart may harden to future relationships and love.
4. ) Realize that this sadness will pass.
5. ) Distract yourself with fun once you're tired of mourning. Movies, sports, classes or anything that will take your mind off things
6. ) Indulge yourself when you're feeling lonely.
7. ) Begin dating again when you're ready. Have friends set you up, and go to all those parties you might skip on normal occasions.
8. ) Analyze what went wrong in the relationship
9. ) Remember the good aspects of the relationship (there must have been some), and then get excited about the new direction your life is suddenly taking.
10. ) I still am in love with you Sheila.
Ian Goh
